I used to think femininity had rules
For a long time, I thought femininity was something you had to earn. Like it came with a checklist. Soft skin, a certain type of chest, a certain silhouette, a body that fits in the middle of the picture without making people stare too long.
And when you grow up with a body that doesn’t match the template, you start doubting yourself in places you shouldn’t even have to question. I did that. Quietly. For years.
Because yes, I have three breasts.
And yes, I still wanted to feel delicate, desired, feminine, pretty, soft.
But it felt like the world didn’t know where to place me.
Being different doesn’t cancel out being feminine
I see the searches. I know what people type.
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Sometimes it’s curiosity, sometimes it’s obsession, sometimes it’s just people trying to understand something they’ve never seen. But here’s the thing I’ve learned with time.
My femininity doesn’t depend on being understood.
It’s in the way I move when I’m alone.
It’s in the way I choose perfumes that smell like summer.
It’s in the way I take care of my hair when I feel anxious.
It’s in the way I wear lingerie, not to impress, but to feel like my body belongs to me.
I stopped asking my body to prove it deserves softness.
Femininity is not symmetry
People think femininity is balance, perfect proportion, the right amount of everything.
But the truth is, femininity is presence.
It’s the way you hold yourself.
The way you breathe when no one is watching.
The way you let your skin exist without punishing it.
My third breast used to feel like something that threatened my identity. Now it feels like something that deepens it. Like my body has its own story, and that story doesn’t erase my beauty. It adds to it.
If you’ve ever felt like your body made you less of something, I want you to know you don’t have to shrink to belong.
A softer place to see my real world
Sometimes, the most honest version of me is the one that doesn’t fit on Instagram. If you want to see the intimate side of this journey, the real confidence and the quiet sensuality, it’s here
https://link.me/kalyaoff
And if you want the fun side, the daily little moments, the laughable chaos, I’m here too
https://www.instagram.com/kalyaunpetittrucenplus
