Getting Dressed Is More Than Just Fashion
I used to open my closet and stare for too long. Not because I didn’t have anything to wear — but because I had too many voices in my head telling me what I shouldn’t wear.
That’s too tight. Too short. Too bold. Too revealing for someone like me.
Having a body that doesn’t blend in made every outfit feel like a decision about visibility. And when you’re different, even clothes become a conversation you didn’t ask to have.
But one day I decided: I’m not hiding anymore.
The First Time I Wore What I Really Wanted
It was a warm day in Corsica. I had this top I loved — open back, soft fabric, just enough to make me feel alive.
I almost didn’t wear it. I was afraid of the stares. The whispers. The questions about my chest.
But I wore it anyway. I stepped out into the sun, heart pounding… and then, something magical happened: nothing. The world didn’t stop. No one exploded. I was just… me.
That one moment changed everything.
Style As A Declaration
Now, when I get dressed, I ask one question: Do I love this?
Not “Will they like this?” Not “Will this hide enough?”
Just — does it make me feel like Kalya?
If the answer is yes, I wear it. Even if it’s daring. Even if it shows my third breast. Especially if it makes me nervous. Because that nervousness? It’s often the sign that I’m stepping into more freedom.
The Power Of Expressing Without Apology
Wearing what I love isn’t about attention — it’s about alignment. When what’s outside reflects who I am inside, I feel stronger. Calmer. Whole.
And I’ve noticed something: the more I show up for myself, the less I care about what others think. I’m not dressing for them. I’m living for me.
If You’re Scared To Wear It
Wear it anyway. Start small. One color. One neckline. One thing that makes you feel electric.
It’s not just fabric — it’s a step toward owning your story.
You don’t owe anyone comfort at the cost of your confidence.
You deserve to wear what you love, even if it scares you a little.
👉 Want to see the outfits I wear and the energy behind them? Follow me on Instagram @kalyaunpetittrucenplus — where I share my style, my courage, and the freedom that comes with both.
